Remember last week when I posted about
Bubba cutting his own hair while all the children were "quietly coloring" at the kitchen table? Turns out there's more to this story, folks.
Over the weekend a friend sent me this note:
"Maybe he really needed 15 toys! Creativity is an amazing adventure! So cute and so damn funny! At least your sweet little girl did not cut her hair!"
I guess I have more to tell you. Let me back up a little.
The day I wrote that post I spent the morning at coffee with some girlfriends.
I was retelling the story about the five minutes alone, the oh-no they've been way too quiet for far too long realization, and the fact that the older kids didn't stop Bubba from whacking at his luxurious locks.
Over cappuccinos and lattes and cute chubby babies I was also explaining the new M.O. (modus operandi) set forth by my dear husband regarding toys in our home.
Two weeks ago we adopted the
Ten Toys Per Child policy.
Let me back up a little further. You see, recently he went on a trip where he stayed in the home of some dear friends. This family of four lives in a very small home. Our home is small. Theirs is smaller. They described a simple rule they keep with their kids that has lead to greater happiness, stronger focus and fuller creativity.
The Rule: Ten Toys Per Child
My hubby came home raving about how great it was being in a home without—please excuse my French—all this
sh*t laying around all. He has been an advocate for extracting the massive quantities of—please excuse my French—
sh*t that so easily accumulates when you have three little people and two big people living in a home together.
The pack-rat in me said, "Oh no, but we might
need it. We can't live without 23 plastic horses, a giant robot, 600 million flash cards and 42 miniature dinosaurs."
The housewife in me said, "Anything to make my job easier and I'll take it."
I hesitantly agreed with the new plan. We presented it to the kids. They jumped on board immediately running to their rooms to fill garage sale bags with their things. Clearly the thousands of precious little plastic thingies laying around here didn't really mean all that much to them after all.
We had a garage sale. They sold everything and kept the money for themselves. (Enter Pokemon cards. But that's a different story for a different day.)
Now that we function in a
Ten Toys Per Child house I have to agree that the reduction of clutter has led to greater happiness, stronger focus and fuller creativity for all.
Enter last week's Five Minutes Alone episode: Quietly Coloring at the Dining Room Table.
After the children woke up in the morning, I began quizzing them about the previous night's events trying desperately to understand why no one stopped the baby from cutting his own hair. Quite quickly it was revealed that Bubba wasn't the only one taking liberty with the scissors. Turns out he got the idea from his older sister who got the idea from her older brother. Yes indeed, all three children cut their hair that evening.
Which brings me back to the note my friend sent over the weekend:
"Maybe he really needed 15 toys! Creativity is an amazing adventure! So cute and so damn funny! At least your sweet little girl did not cut her hair!"
Ahhhhh, the simple joy of youthful creativity!